Origins of the concept
American psychologist Theodore Millon described the type in 1969: people who want connection but "actively withdraw" for fear of rejection. That set them apart from schizoid people, who are simply indifferent to relationships. The concept entered DSM-III in 1980. Today DSM-5-TR places it in Cluster C, the anxious and fearful group, alongside dependent and obsessive-compulsive personality disorders.
Criteria and the overlap with social anxiety
Diagnosis requires four or more of seven criteria:
- avoiding jobs with lots of interpersonal contact
- getting involved only when sure of being liked
- holding back in intimate relationships for fear of shame
- preoccupation with criticism in social situations
- inhibition in new relationships
- seeing oneself as inferior
- exaggerating the risks of new activities
It overlaps heavily with social anxiety disorder and often co-occurs with it. The core of AvPD is a pervasive self-image of inadequacy rather than fear of specific situations. It is distinct from the mood swings and impulsivity of borderline personality disorder.
Causes and treatment
A behaviorally inhibited temperament, childhood rejection or ridicule, and insecure attachment are thought to combine. Cognitive behavioral therapy has shown benefit by combining graded exposure with work on beliefs like "rejection would be unbearable." So has schema therapy, and SSRIs may help with co-occurring anxiety or depression. Self-compassion training can soften harsh self-criticism. Note that AvPD is not the same as the popular idea of an "avoidant attachment style."
FAQ
- Is it the same as avoidant attachment?
- No—attachment style describes relationship patterns; AvPD is a diagnosable disorder.
- Is introversion a form of AvPD?
- No. Introverts are comfortable alone; people with AvPD want connection but avoid it out of fear and suffer for it.
Sources reviewed: 2026-10-26
References
- American Psychiatric Association. (2022). DSM-5-TR.
- Millon, T. (1981). Disorders of Personality: DSM-III, Axis II. Wiley.
- Weinbrecht, A., et al. (2016). Avoidant personality disorder: a current review. Current Psychiatry Reports, 18(3), 29.
