Purpose
Like an informational interview, a coffee chat reveals day-to-day work and skills that a job description cannot. Granovetter's 'strength of weak ties' research suggests loose contacts often bring new information. Make clear you are not asking for a job.
Request and follow-up
Include a short intro, why you chose this person, a 20–30 minute time proposal and two or three questions. Ask about experiences, not salary, confidential matters or referrals. Send thanks within 24 hours.
FAQ
- Who pays?
- Usually the person who asked.
- Can I ask for a referral?
- Not at a first meeting.
Sources reviewed: 2026-10-26
References
- 고용노동부 청년고용정책 안내. https://www.moel.go.kr
- Granovetter, M. S. (1973). The strength of weak ties. American Journal of Sociology, 78(6), 1360–1380.
- Dalton, S. (2012). The 2-Hour Job Search. Ten Speed Press.
