The studies
In two 1967 studies Mehrabian and colleagues presented single words such as 'maybe' in liking, neutral or disliking tones, or with facial photographs, and measured how listeners judged the speaker's attitude. Combining the results gave 7% words, 38% voice and 55% face.
Scope and myths
- The ratio applies only to feelings and attitudes and only when verbal and nonverbal cues conflict.
- The claim that 93% of all communication is nonverbal is a misreading; Mehrabian himself warned against it.
- Lab studies with single words and still photos generalise poorly to real conversation.
Relevance to counselling
The core point - people trust nonverbal cues when they clash with words - remains useful. Eye contact, open posture, nodding and tone build rapport, and mismatches between a client's words and expression are cues worth exploring.
References
- Mehrabian, A., & Wiener, M. (1967). Decoding of inconsistent communications. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 6(1), 109-114.
- Mehrabian, A., & Ferris, S. R. (1967). Inference of attitudes from nonverbal communication in two channels. Journal of Consulting Psychology, 31(3), 248-252.
- Mehrabian, A. (1971). Silent Messages. Wadsworth.