概述
温暖度高但自主支持低,可对照鲍姆林德教养方式。
影响
研究发现与大学生抑郁、生活满意度较低相关;父母也容易出现育儿倦怠。
守护的风也可能让孩子张不开翅膀。看着孩子自己站起来,比阻止每一次跌倒更有帮助。
常见问题
- 关心多就是直升机父母吗?
- 不是,关键在是否符合孩子年龄给予自主。
参考文献
- Ginott, H. G. (1969). Between Parent and Teenager. Macmillan.
- Cline, F. W., & Fay, J. (1990). Parenting with Love and Logic. NavPress.
- Padilla-Walker, L. M., & Nelson, L. J. (2012). Black Hawk Down? Establishing helicopter parenting as a distinct construct from other forms of parental control during emerging adulthood. Journal of Adolescence, 35(5), 1177–1190.
- Schiffrin, H. H., et al. (2014). Helping or hovering? The effects of helicopter parenting on college students’ well-being. Journal of Child and Family Studies, 23(3), 548–557.
