概述
阿伦夫妇提出，人有扩展自我的动机，亲密关系通过把对方纳入自我来满足它。
发展
与成人依恋理论相关。
评价
有实证与批评。
常见问题
- 自我扩展模型是什么？
- 阿伦夫妇提出，人有扩展自我的动机，亲密关系通过把对方纳入自我来满足它。
- 为何重要？
- 有助于理解社会。
来源核查日期：2026-10-26
参考文献
- Aron, A., & Aron, E. N. (1986). Love and the expansion of self: Understanding attraction and satisfaction. Hemisphere. 首次提出该模型的著作，阐明自我扩展动机的基本假设。
- Aron, A., Aron, E. N., Tudor, M., & Nelson, G. (1991). Close relationships as including other in the self. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60(2), 241–253. 实验证明亲密他人被纳入自我。
- Aron, A., Aron, E. N., & Smollan, D. (1992). Inclusion of Other in the Self Scale and the structure of interpersonal closeness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(4), 596–612. 提出以两圆重叠测量亲密度的IOS量表。
- Aron, A., Paris, M., & Aron, E. N. (1995). Falling in love: Prospective studies of self-concept change. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 69(6), 1102–1112. 纵向研究显示坠入爱河后自我概念扩展。
- Aron, A., Norman, C. C., Aron, E. N., McKenna, C., & Heyman, R. E. (2000). Couples' shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(2), 273–284. 实验显示共同参与新奇活动提升关系质量。
- Aron, A., Norman, C. C., Aron, E. N., & Lewandowski, G. (2002). Shared participation in self-expanding activities: Positive effects on experienced marital quality. In P. Noller & J. A. Feeney (Eds.), Understanding marriage (pp. 177–194). Cambridge University Press. 讨论减少长期关系倦怠的章节。
- Aron, A., Lewandowski, G. W., Jr., Mashek, D., & Aron, E. N. (2013). The self-expansion model of motivation and cognition in close relationships. In J. A. Simpson & L. Campbell (Eds.), The Oxford handbook of close relationships. Oxford University Press. 综述动机与认知原理的手册章节。